Stop Trying to Make FETCH Happen
Advice from the Mean Girl within
Regina George is rolling her eyes at us right now because there’s something we’re still desperately clinging to. But she’s right -its just NOT going to happen. And at this point, do we care?
After being sick for nearly two weeks with not much keeping me going, except watching Spencer Pratt single handedly save Tik Tok and his family from the devastation of the Palisades fires, I couldn’t help but stew on my own pain that this Mars retrograde has forced me to sit with. Marinate in, even.
Between cough drops and wads of tissues, I have been reflecting a lot on survival (Mars) and why we are here, feeling nurtured (Cancer) or the lack thereof, and the process of letting go of trying to make FETCH happen.
What is fetch?
If you have not had the glorious pleasure of seeing the movie Mean Girls, “fetch” is a word that a character, Gretchen, tries to slide into conversation and it always feels awkward and forced. It's not cool and the movie bully, Regina, bluntly lets her know it.
So “fetch” is forced.
The North Node just shifted into Pisces where we are all about the flow, meanwhile the planet of ACTION is completely dampened, turning inwards in Cancer. What are we forcing that just isn’t flowing?
Interestingly, the full moon in Cancer this week has been at a once in 18 year lunar standstill. This is amplifying our awareness that something hurts and we really want to feel better and get relief. There is no better time than using this energy to have a good cry (scream) and come to the root of the matter. Mommy issues? Where do you need to lovingly nurture and reparent yourself? It should be pretty clear and if this isn’t affecting you, perhaps you are here to step into the role of the nurturer. The answers can be found by looking at where you have Cancer in your birth chart.
The results we want to see are not going to come from forcing. Something inside of us has to give in before we move forward. An attitude, a core belief, an emotion. Let it simmer and then let it GO, because soon we are turning the page into the second half of January with a much different vibe. The less unprocessed emotion the better going into Aquarius season.
On January 19th the sun will move into Aquarius, January 27th Mercury moves into Aquarius, on January 29th we have a new moon in Aquarius, and on January 30th Uranus goes direct in Taurus.
I just have this feeling that we are in for a show. I don’t exactly know how it will present itself, but I have a “calm before the storm” kind of sensation. I have been sitting outside on my back patio in the morning with Pondy and I can feel an activation in the air. The wind is gently blowing and I’m tapping into an invisible electricity. (Its that or the DayQuil is way stronger these days) I feel deep peace mixed with anticipation. Something is about to go down!
In this mix, Pluto will move to the 2nd degree of Aquarius and take us to a completely unknown terrain. As a human collective on earth, we have not experienced this in our lifetime. Uranus will go direct at the end of the month with loose cannon energy and a mixed bag of randomness. With Mercury conjunct Pluto, the new moon in Aquarius is bringing sudden downloads from other dimensions. Life on earth is changing. We are upgrading. We are not just wandering souls on a spinning rock. We are pioneering spiritual beings ready to lock in for our divine assignments.
Can you feel this? Do you have a sense that there is a plot twist or something quite significant on the horizon? Send me a message and let me know your thoughts and experiences with this energy:
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As I look ahead we are also in some very magical energy with the North Node in Pisces conjunct Neptune. This has the makings of massive spiritual awakenings. Stay tuned for more on that!
